What Love Is and Valentines Day~

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What Love Is and Valentines Day~

Posted by Blazejsg - March 1st, 2012

Valentines day is the worlds holiday of love.
It's a day to celebrate love, but not just the romantic kind..
we can celebrate it for ourselves, for life, for struggles, love for everyone in your life.
Valentines day has been marketed to make us all believe, that we have to be in a relationship if we're single, and if we are in a relationship that we have to prove our love to each other on that day.

But I think Valentines day is more than that..
for those who are single: Valentines Day is a great day to celebrate your freedom, and embrace the courage to become a more loving person.

Rich moments come from being single.
Being single gives you the opportunity to get out there and date, and discover who you are, what you like, what you don't like and what works best with you.

Being alone is far better then wishing you were alone.

Valentines day doesn't have to be a reminder that you can't find love, the day can be a celebration of your own life.

If you're in a relationship Valentines day isn't about proving your love to each other, with fine good gestures.
though i'm not saying you shouldn't be creative; and candy, flowers and jewelry are very nice.. :3..

In a relationship Valentines day is a good day to express your love, but it should set the tone to how you treat each other every day.
You can express your love at any time; Valentines day is a reminder to show love.
You don't need to wait for when to do that.

Love is available to everyone on Valentines Day. You just need to recognize it!

Happy Late Valentines , Everyone!
I love you all equally =)~<3

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Natick 2012-03-01 17:35:53

Inb4 Forever alone.

Blazejsg 2012-03-01 17:35:53

wut?

VicariousE 2012-03-01 17:56:03

I'm sure Hallmark, inventor of the holiday, would agree with the consumer aspect of your treatise.
The best Val's Day gifts I ever gave, were simple and hand made things you use everyday.
Love is about seizing every moment of joy, because once it's gone, you can never have it the same way again. It's also one of the few things you can take with you when you're done living.

Blazejsg 2012-03-01 17:56:03

Love is something that cannot be defined we all have a meaning to the word "love".
So it's impossible.
Wow you just read my mind because that's how I feel right now.
"Because once it's gone, you can never have it the same way"
thanks ^ ^ for contributing!

JBKalso 2012-03-01 18:43:54

I disagree with that last part.

DiroNomer 2012-03-01 21:15:10

You and Asandir should get married.

Blazejsg 2012-03-01 21:15:10

I don't know him.

Ihatedapatriots 2012-03-02 00:36:49

I usually celebrate the holiday in reference to my girlfriend but I do find my self in a more loving, less hostile mood. It's weird for dudes, but I think general reminders that we are supposed to love each other are helpful. Love for your fellow man is the most natural emotion there is.

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 00:36:49

Well it is weird for men, due to the fact that woman are more sensitive and express more emotion.
Honestly why can't boys just let go of all their problems and express their feelings within themselves.
But oh well.. thats just me ^-^...

DiroNomer 2012-03-02 01:55:08

Quit saying you don't know Asandir. I know you do. Everbody knows Asandir D:<

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 01:55:08

Honestly I don't LOL.

Ihatedapatriots 2012-03-02 02:25:06

Because its weird. There's pride and fear involved. I try not to be like that and show.my emotions. But its ......its just weird.

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 02:25:06

I respect that you need to maintain a reputation, but doesn't it feel better when you let out all your problems and no one but your girlfriend understands you?

DumbassDude 2012-03-02 08:09:42

It's crazy how valentines day has completely changed in meaning since it was started, from a religious title to a celebration between lovers. It's what I like the holiday, interesting backstory.

I have to say though, valentines is a hard day to express love towards everyone in general when you're alone on the day, it's like a 24 hour reminder that this year on valentines, you don't have a date :(

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 08:09:42 (Updated 2012-03-02 15:48:15)

Yeah, but it's easier to give chocolates or gifts to your opposite gender~
It's pretty normal and of course a girl will like it c:~!
Honestly if you gave me a rose or a hug a would totally accept your loving gesture :3!

Natick 2012-03-02 09:06:01

Valentine's Day is a worldwide excuse to get sex, if you ask me.

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 09:06:01

For some people it is romantic to express love that way.

JCFfilms 2012-03-02 10:17:11

Will you be my Valentine? ;_____________________;
<3

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 10:17:11 (Updated 2012-03-02 15:49:33)

of course c: <3~
to bad it's over though xD

DiroNomer 2012-03-02 22:01:16

You say you love everyone...so that means you love me right??? :333333333

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 22:01:16 (Updated 2012-03-02 22:56:50)

c: of course; I love you<3 you're my biffle.

Bladeace777 2012-03-02 22:33:36

Whoa, did you time travel? :D

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 22:33:36

:D yup.

P0sitivity 2012-03-02 22:50:34

Too bad valentines day was two fucking weeks ago

Blazejsg 2012-03-02 22:50:34

I KNOW RIGHT...?
I could have expressed it all to everyone with a thread..

VicariousE 2012-03-03 02:47:52

I have a large, blonde girl-friend that used to buy two dozen roses and hand them out to random people. She's a white Wiccan witch (secular) too. Also loves ponies and pets.
Or. Am I being stereotypical?

Blazejsg 2012-03-03 02:47:52 (Updated 2012-03-03 02:55:27)

I'm sorry are you ok xD?
I stopped reading this seriously when I got to wiccan witch lol.

How is this relevant hun?
you better be getting some sleep!

Spilda-Bongwata 2012-03-03 05:09:45

your post was boring and generic :x

Blazejsg 2012-03-03 05:09:45

Well others liked it~ Because they understand.
maybe you should read it like others do, and take it positively.

DumbassDude 2012-03-03 10:42:43

I'd give someone a hug and a rose for a gesture, suuure, but I would love something manly and a hug back :p
(I say something manly, as I right now I can't think of anything manly)

Blazejsg 2012-03-03 10:42:43

LOL, I didn't know hugs were manly-like, but sure that works.
Hugs demonstrate good feelings for one another and comfort!
I love the hugs that last about 1~3minutes lol.

Sheizenhammer 2012-03-03 17:18:39

Valentine's day was invented by the Hallmark card company, because they had no significant card sales between Christmas and Easter. It was started solely as a guilt-tripping exercise to get people to buy cards and shit for their loved ones, just so they could stay in business. Unlike Christmas or Easter, it never had any religious roots or deeper meaning than what it has today; it is, and always was, a hollow marketing exercise that somehow stuck in public mentality.

Yes, it really is that shallow. Loved one or not, the whole thing's a load of disingenuous crap.

Blazejsg 2012-03-03 17:18:39

Lol, you can view it that way.
everyone has their own views on Valentines Day.
In our generation its just a celebration (mostly) with our loved ones ^ ^~

Ihatedapatriots 2012-03-03 17:47:55

People who hate Valentines Day suck. Its like the best day of the year. My chick and I had a good one this year.

Blazejsg 2012-03-03 17:47:55

People who hate Valentines probably have never been loved, or shown affection that's why I show everyone affection and understanding.~

I'm also glad you and your girlfriend are having a great time! how long have you been together c:?

Natick 2012-03-04 00:30:02

Stop being so beautiful.

Blazejsg 2012-03-04 00:30:02

I'm being beautiful?
sorry I didn't notice.. :c

MrDaemon 2012-03-04 12:28:23

Just another arbitrary and pretentious as fuck holiday.

People should behave as such ALL FUCKING YEAR, but I digress.

Blazejsg 2012-03-04 12:28:23

If you did not read.
It's just a reminder when you're in a relationship.

Pardon me, but some of us don't have deceased feelings.
So we express them in that holiday for others.

Not saying you don't have feelings, but it seems like something during your pretentious life is making you hate this holiday.

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