Age 32, Female
Student.
NDSU
Hillsboro, North Dakota.
Joined on 11/27/09
Posted by Blazejsg - May 5th, 2012
I decided to start due to my recent heartbreak.
Surprisingly I called a few old guy friends sounding interested in them, and I ended up with having three dates next week.
So i'm asking you guys to answer this question.
Should I really move on?
I'm not that excited for the dates, but I figured they would help me get my mind off him, and maybe fall in love again.
Then again, there are three of them and I don't really want to hurt them. The dates are just friend-ish, nothing too serious.
No problem cuz. c:
Sounds like an annoying waste of time on part of the guys to be honest, there's nothing worse then going into a date half-heartedly. That and rebounds are probably never the best thing to have...
I don't know, from a guy's perspective, I'd be pretty annoyed if I found out, that all we were doing is just wasting my time, unless of course the other guy's also think of you just as a friend and you're doing this just for fun.
Lol, No no!
I'm pretty sure I verified this with them, that it's a "get together" sort of thing.
I really don't want to hurt them or waste their time.
Moving on after a heartbreak is the thing to do, but I don't really like the whole "dating" thing, like setting up a bunch with random people you're fond of. I would prefer trying to find someone you'll actually love rather than a several-month fuck buddy and breaking up.
Thats the problem.
Even though their friends from high school years, I feel like I don't know them. It's strange because I didn't know that they liked me lol, It's like they were waiting for me to heal or patch up. Anyway, finding someone "I" can love is really difficult; and no, I can care less about a guys physical appearance. I just want a guy to make me feel.. different.
Doug Stanhope said, "Nothing's ever going to happen to you in your entire boring life. You'll fall in love. They'll break your heart. Later on in life, you'll settle for less. They're not so much of a looker nor are they high on the personality scale but they're stable."
Don't know if that will ever apply to you though. I shouldn't be giving out romantic advice.
That's true, but I'm not trying to find love. Just trying to get close with my friends so I can find out if I feel something for them later on..
Don't ever stop posting, Jenny. We all love you very much.
Aww, shucks.
Thanks Natick =)
convict357
Right, you should move on because just being depressed all the time isn't gonna do much good so you have to move on and find some more guys that might have more in common than your ex but it's up to you to decide on which one is the right one for you.
Blazejsg
Thank you, I needed to hear that. Thanks for your support cuz~